Bullying Started at Home

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Bullying started at home. Somehow bercandaan di rumah sendiri sudah tidak lagi lucu. When they talked about how short I am or about anything. When my parents bullied me, did they understand that’s me is part of their genetic’s contribution? Did I ever ask to be a short girl? Did I ever ask to have a oily acne prone skin? Did I ever ask to born this way? Before I continue the shit’s black hole, I have to stop this bullying.

1. I started to love my self more, and try to give myself compliment.
2. Thank to Allah that my organs and my cells are normal so I could live perfectly in this world. I don’t have to pup in plastic bag, I don’t have to change my blood every month. Allah creates me perfectly, I don’t like anybody who talks to much about my body even my family member.
3. I should tell my children later about body image perception. Derajat kita di mata Allah tidak ditentukan dari fisik. Kita tidak dinilai dari seberapa cantik atau tampan kita, hitam atau putih kulit kita, tapi dari perbuatan kita. Stop bullying children since they live at home.

Tidak heran jika banyak frustasi, depresi, dan juga rencana bunuh diri terjadi karena secara tidak sadar, kepercayaan diri mereka sudah hilang sejak di dalam rumah.

4. Gives compliment to others
5. Smile and forgive more

Kalau bukan diri sendiri yang menghargai, siapa lagi? Mulailah menghargai diri sendiri dan orang-orang di sekeliling kita. Your mouth somehow could kill your spouse or family or friends silently.

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